Understanding The Principles Of Developing Postive Relationships With Children, Young People And Adults

Why effective communication is valuable We are more likely to communicate information to one an different if we project positive relationships. Parents and other adults who come into the school are more likely to give beneficial support if communication is blind drunk and effective this, in turn, benefits pupils. It is also important for pupils that we model effective communication skills. This means checking what we are verbalize sometimes in moments of stress or excitement, so that they can at a lower placestand what our expectations are in school.If we supplicate pupils to behave in a particular way when communicating and then for outfox to do so ourselves, they will find it harder to understand the boundaries of what is acceptable. Effective communication and positive relationships do not happen by chance. You should think about the way you relate to others and the messages that this sends out. In situations where communication breaks down, misunderstandings can lead to ba d feeling.1. 12 The principles of relationship buildingThe principles of relationship building with childrenand adults in any context are that if others are at ease in our company, they will be more likely to communicate effectively. Where people do not get along or are suspicious of one some other(prenominal), they are likely to avoid one another wherever possible. Positive relationships are not something which should be left_ to chance and it is important to consider the ways in which we can expose them. We build relationships with others in school on a daily basis in a number of different ways.Although you whitethorn do some of these without necessarily thinkingabout it, it is worth(predicate) taking time to consider whether you do only of the following? Effective communication this is the key neighborhood for developing relationships with others and also covers many different forms of communication (see below)? Showing respect in order to develop positive relationships w ith others, it is very important to be courteous and respectful, and to listen to their smirchs of view. Adults and pupils with whom you work may also be from different cultures and have different beliefs or values from your own.Youshould ensure that you acknowledge and respect the views of others at all times and beat time to remember names and preferred forms of address? Being considerate take the time to consider the positions of others. You may be working with a child or adult who is under particular pressure at a given time and need to understand why they may have behaved or reacted in a certain way or out of character? think issues which are personal to them it will always help to build positive relationships if you enquire a_er particular aspectsof another persons life for example, if you know that a colleague is concerned about their child get into a particular secondary school, or if you are aware that it is a childs natal day? Taking time to listen to others make su re that you take time to listen to other people, in particular if they are asking for advice or help, or if they need to confide in you. You should always fork out that you are interested in what they have to say and respond appropriately?Being clear on key points when you have conversations with others in which you are givingthem information, you should always ensure that they are clear what you have said at the end of the discussion. This is because it can be easy to be distracted from the main point of the conversation. When talking to children, always ask them to repeat back to you what they need to do? Maintaining a sense of bodily fluid although the nature of our work in school is important, we should also sometimes take time to see the unpaired side of different situations. Laughter can be a good icebreaker and is also a great way of relaxing and relieving stress.